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• 网络阿普特；阿普特尔；艾波特

例句

Dr Apter said one woman she spoke to began receiving messages from her mother-in-law-to-be two months before the wedding.

阿普特博士称，一位受访女性称，她在结婚前两个月就不断地收到婆婆的来信。

"Offers to help are often perceived as criticism, " Apter said.

“提供帮助往往被看作是批评，”阿普特说。

Although she's a psychologist specializing in family relations, Apter admits that she has fallen into some common in-law traps herself.

虽然她是一个专业是家庭关系的心理学家，阿普特承认，她已落入一些常见的亲家陷阱里。

Assuming your daughter-in-law wants your advice. Most don't want to hear "This is what I did so this is what you should do, " says Apter.

假设你的媳妇需要你的咨询。最不想听到“我这样做，你应该这样做的，”阿普特说。

It's the disappointment felt by both women that "gives these relationships their distinctive negative charge, " Apter says.

双方都感到失望，“给予这些关系独特的负面影响，”阿普特说。

As to sight, the expression is apter to distinguish the other side's mood , clue of the attitude.

相对目光而言，表情是更容易辨别对方心情、态度的线索。

Maybe she's not the world's best mother-in-law yet, but Apter's working on it.

也许她不是世界上最好的婆婆，但阿普特在努力。

"Legally, they're adults, but they're on the threshold, the doorway to adulthood, and they're not going through it, " Apter says.

“从法律上讲，他们已经是成年人了，但是他们仍在通向成人的门道口，无法走入其中，”Apter说。